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Figuring
out Fatherhood
Pastor Sam
Chess
Grace
Emmanuel Church
I. The Fatherhood of God
A) When did God become a Father?
(John 1:1) In the beginning was the Word, and
the Word was with God, and the Word was God. (18) No one has ever
seen God; the only Son, who is in the bosom of the Father
(begotten), he has made him known. (RSV)
B ) Who is God the Father of?
(Ephesians 3:14-15) For this reason I kneel
before the Father, from whom his whole family (patria- fatherhood)
in heaven and on earth derives its name. (NIV)
1) Fatherhood did not begin on earth…it began in
______________.
2) Fatherhood began with God before recorded time
began.
3) All fatherhood must go back to it’s source.
E) What was Jesus on earth to accomplish, in
relationship to the Father?
(John 14:6) Jesus said to him, "I am the way, and
the truth, and the life;
1) Jesus is the way…… to what?
2) If Jesus is the way… what is the
destination?____________________
(John 14:6) Jesus said to him, "I am the way, and
the truth, and the life; no one comes to the Father, but by me.
We talk a great deal about Jesus as our
Savior, our mediator, our intercessor….. We invite people to come to
Jesus…But God’s purpose is not just that we come to the Son but
through the Son we are to come to the Father... Our Father… Abba,
Father!
F) Besides paying the price for our sins…What
other great accomplishment did
Jesus say He had accomplished?
(John 17:1) When Jesus had spoken these
words, he lifted up his eyes to heaven and said, "Father, the hour
has come; glorify thy Son that the Son may glorify thee,
(John 17:6) "I have manifested Your name to the
men whom You have given Me out of the world. They were Yours, You
gave them to Me, and they have kept Your word. (NKJV)
(John 17:11) "Now I am no longer in the world,
but these are in the world, and I come to You. Holy Father, keep
through Your name those whom You have given Me, that they may be one
as We are. (NKJV)
(John 17:26) "And I have declared to them Your
name, and will declare it, that the love with which You loved Me may
be in them, and I in them." (NKJV)
1) What is the Name Jesus is revealing to
us?….Yahweh?
2) The new revelation, the special purpose Jesus
was revealing was God’s name of FATHER. In the New Testament the
name FATHER is the ultimate name of God!
3) Father describes the nature of God more
accurately than any other word in the human language!
II. Comparing our Heavenly Father to an Earthly
Father
A) Since the eternal nature of God is that of a
Father and all fatherhood derives from Him as the source….it follows
that the role of every father on earth is to represent God.
B) If God Himself is most satisfied with
His characterization as a Father… If
He is the source of Father hood…it follows that
He would be very interested in how we go about imitating Him in the
Fathering process.
C) If a man were enormously successful in his
profession, and/or in the accumulation of wealth but was
unsuccessful in his Fathering…it seems like the Heavenly Father
would have some very strong views about that!
III. Representing our Heavenly Father as an
Earthly Father.
The Heavenly Father gave his Son responsibilities
in his role of bringing mankind to Himself. I’m going to suggest
that He then gave human fathers the next level of responsibility to
carry our the same functions.
Just like Jesus:
As a Priest the human father represents
his family before God
As a Prophet he represents God to his
family
As a King he guides his family into the
Ways of God
A) As a Priest the human father represents
his family before God
Do you remember the example of Job in the Bible.
He was a “perfect and upright man before God“. Each week his seven
sons and three daughters would meet in each others homes for
feasting and just as faithfully :
(Job 1:5) When a period of feasting had run
its course, Job would send and have them purified. Early in the
morning he would sacrifice a burnt offering for each of them,
thinking, "Perhaps my children have sinned and cursed God in their
hearts." This was Job's regular custom. (NIV)
This would correspond in New Testament or modern
times to a dad, or single mom, or grandparent carrying their
children to God in prayer, interceding on their behalf.
There is a constant flow of examples, in the
Bible, of Dad’s being responsible for the spiritual condition of
their families.
Remember the original Passover in the Old
Testament.
(Exodus 12:3) Tell the whole community of
Israel that on the tenth day of this month each man is to take a
lamb for his family, one for each household. (NIV)
The Father was to represent his family before God
and it was his sole responsibility to have the blood on the doorpost
to guard his families welfare. Each head of home had the God-
appointed responsibility to act as a priest for his entire family.
Obviously, just like today, there would have been
many families where the biological father was no longer present.
Somebody, whether it was the single mom or another related or
unrelated man, had to assume the role of priest for the spiritual
welfare of the children in each household. So it must be today….
In the event that Dad is present in the home
he has a Divine imperative to serve in a priestly ministry to those
who are in his household! He must not try to delegate this
responsibility to someone else!
Remember the story of the epileptic boy brought
to Jesus to be healed. Jesus questioned the father:
(Mark 9:22-23) "And often he has thrown him
both into the fire and into the water to destroy him. But if You can
do anything, have compassion on us and help us." Jesus said to him,
"If you can believe, all things are possible to him who believes." (NKJV)
Notice, Jesus held the father responsible to
belie e for his son. Same with the Philippian Jailer after the
earthquake set Paul and Silas free….
(Acts 16:30-31) And he brought them out and
said, "Sirs, what must I do to be saved?" So they said, "Believe on
the Lord Jesus Christ, and you will be saved, you and your
household." (NKJV)
We know from other Scriptures that his faith
couldn’t actually bring his family into salvation but Dad’s belief
would open the spiritual doorway for the rest of his family to
believe.
So… A) As a Priest the human father
represents his family before God
B) As a Prophet he represents God to
his family
Hard, cold, fact is that a father, by design does
represent God to his family. He may do it well or he may miserably
fail…. Children naturally form their view of what God is like from
how His representatives to them act.
Depending on what kind of Father you had you had
to come to your heavenly Father as a result of or in spite of who
your father was. You who’s fathers guiding your viewpoint had a much
easier pathway to follow.
There are not a lot of direct commands to fathers
in the Bible but we can gain guidance:
(Ephesians 6:4) Fathers, do not exasperate
your children; instead, bring them up in the training and
instruction of the Lord. (NIV)
(Colossians 3:21) Fathers, do not embitter
your children, or they will become discouraged. (NIV)
Fathers have the primary responsibility to “bring
up children in the training and instruction of the Lord. If there is
no biological father present someone has to assume that role…. But
if a father is present, he cannot pass that responsibility on
to someone else!
This doesn’t lower the responsibility of
motherhood but it certainly does elevate the responsibility of
fatherhood for the spiritual development of children. Single moms
and dads… you have to fill both roles and you must trust God to give
you a double portion of his grace.
1) Two directives
a) Maintain discipline ; bring them up in the
training and instruction of the Lord. (NIV)
(Deuteronomy 11:18-20) Fix these words of mine in
your hearts and minds; tie them as symbols on your hands and bind
them on your foreheads. Teach them to your children, talking about
them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you
lie down and when you get up. Write them on the doorframes of your
houses and on your gates, (NIV)
b) Guard against discouragement: Fathers, do not
exasperate your children….. do not embitter your children, or they
will become discouraged.
c) Balance of discipline without unfair or
excessive demands,… brings lack of self worth, feelings of
failure, frustration,
As a Priest the human father represents
his family before God
As a Prophet he represents God to his
family
C) As a King he guides his family into the
Ways of God
A) The Father as Governor
(1 Timothy 3:4-5) He must manage his own family
well and see that his children obey him with proper respect. (If
anyone does not know how to manage his own family, how can he take
care of God's church?) (NIV)
1) rule….to lead out in front, to set the example
B) Abraham- Father of Many…..why did God
choose him?
Abram means “exalted Father” changed to “Father
of a multitude”.. Abraham
Abrahams qualifications for leading the nation of
Israel seemed to revolve around his father’s heart. I get all that
from his names??? Not quite…
(Genesis 18:17-19) Then the LORD said, "Shall
I hide from Abraham what I am about to do? Abraham will surely
become a great and powerful nation, and all nations on earth will be
blessed through him. For I have chosen him, so that he
will direct his children and his household after him to keep the way
of the LORD by doing what is right and just, so that the LORD will
bring about for Abraham what he has promised him." (NIV)
Conclusion: We cannot fail…
(Malachi 4:5-6) "See, I will send you the
prophet Elijah before that great and dreadful day of the LORD comes.
He will turn the hearts of the fathers to their children, and the
hearts of the children to their fathers; or else I will come and
strike the land with a curse." (NIV)
It’s interesting that God started the children of
Israel with an emphasis on fatherhood and then ended the Old
Testament with a warning about fatherhood….
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