Grace Emmanuel Church
Pastor Sam Chess
What if Jesus had Never Been Born?
(Part 5)
(Where the “Sexual
Revolution” has brought us)
I. Christianity’s Impact on
Human Sexuality
God is not the least bit
vague about his plan for human sexuality
(1 Thessalonians 4:3-6) It is
God's will that you should be sanctified: that you should avoid
sexual immorality; that each of you should learn to control his own
body in a way that is holy and honorable, not in passionate lust
like the heathen, who do not know God; and that in this matter no
one should wrong his brother or take advantage of him. The Lord will
punish men for all such sins, as we have already told you and warned
you. (NIV)
So…if that is what God’s plan
is not… for human sexuality what is God’s plan for human sexuality?
The answer is… and has for all of time… remained locked up in one
word:
(Hebrews 13:4) Marriage should
be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will
judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral. (NIV)
Amazingly, every culture, of
any account, throughout history has maintained, as the bedrock of
their society the institution of the covenant union of one man and
one woman.
Some cultures have strayed
into polygamy, many have played games with God’s original
institution. This thing called sexual immorality, has crept into
every society always threatening the very existence of the
institution of marriage itself:
Every civilization that has
risen to world prominence and moved counter to the institution of
marriage has eventually ceased to exist!
We, as a nation, are on a fast
track toward the watering down and eventual elimination of God’s
for-ordained institution of marriage!
Pastor, you are
overreacting…Yes we have moved further away from the old fashioned
“one man, one woman, 2 children” view of family… We have become
enlightened and experienced a sexual freedom in our modern society,
We have learned an acceptance and even an affirmation of sexual
activity outside of a traditional marriage covenant, and yes we are
now on the verge of approving the homosexual marriage union of two
men or two women….but Pastor don’t be Victorian about it all…this
new sexual freedom is not going to destroy the family unit in our
country, we’ re not going to follow every civilization before us,
who took this path, by first fading from prominence and then ceasing
to exist…. I don’t agree!!….
When Hitler marched his troops
into Austria and then annexed Czechoslovakia, in the late 30’s, the
response of the rest of Europe was startling… They did nothing!
England Prime Minister Neville Chamberlain decided to follow a
policy of “appeasement” where he and his political allies would
ignore the threat and hop it would just go away. Instead of just
going away Hitler systematically swallowed up most of Europe and
threatened England itself…. Chamberlain was forced to resign in
shame. England’s new Prime Minister, Winston Churchill, along with
the United States and other Allies joined forces to push Hitler back
into his hole and free the countries he had conquered, but the
effort took several years and millions of people died.
In retrospect Churchill said:
“Never was a war more easy to stop than that which has just wrecked
the world.”
Today, 60 years later, we are
facing another World War. This struggle is not being fought with
guns and bombs, but with ideas, with creative uses of the law, and
with methods of intimidation. It is a battle for the very soul of
the nation!- James Dobson
It is a battle for the family!
The 2001 US Census reported that :
Families headed by a single
father were up 72%
Families headed by a single
mother had increased 25%
In 1940, 3.8 percent of
children were born to unwed mothers, in 2001,
33% of all babies were born to
unwed mothers!
Households headed by a father
and a mother had dropped below 25%
From 1960 to 2001, the number
of people living together without benefit of marriage had increased
___________?
850%
It used to be very hard to get
out of a marriage covenant… it was an institution protected by law.
In 1969 California signed into law the first no-fault divorce law.
In the years that followed all fifty states adopted some form of
no-fault divorce. It is now easier to get out of a thirty year
covenant of marriage than it is to legally get out of a pool
maintenance contract.
In the sixties students
demanded that we “make love not war” and so we entered the sexual
revolution which brought sexual freedom to millions of Americans… It
also brought an epidemic of sexually transmitted diseases and
finally the onset of the HIV/ AIDS epidemic.
Oh… the distance we have
traveled, in my lifetime, since we found our sexual freedom…Many of
us have no idea how free we now are:
II. Where the “Sexual
Revolution” has brought us (Sue Chess)
At this very moment an
epidemic is invading our world. It threatens our very lives, but
often goes unnoticed until it’s too late. It’s an epidemic that is
raging in every corner of the country, from rural towns to every
major city and across the world. Worst of all, it is an epidemic
that we have helped to create.
We have created it because the
heart of our sin nature that says, “I will do what I want.” One of
the results of the sexual rebellion is the escalation of sexually
transmitted diseases.. STD’s have increased more than 500% in recent
years. Right now, one out of every four sexually active teens is
living with an STD. (The price of sexual freedom!)
These STD’s have changed over
the years. Not long ago, we had only “VD” or venereal diseases to
deal with. Today, we are facing at least 25 new STD’s with up to 100
different strains within each virus. These viruses often stay with
the “sexually free” person for a lifetime…there is simply no cure.
Perhaps the biggest STD enemy is HPV (human papilloma virus - or
genital warts) which directly causes 99.7% of all cervical cancer.
· More women died last year from cervical
cancer (induced by HPV) than what died of AIDS. Cervical Cancer
is the second highest killer of women worldwide.
· On the side of a box of condoms they list
the STD’s that this thin piece of latex gives you limited
protection from. HPV is not even mentioned because the CDC has
determined that condoms “provide little or no protection” from
this #1 virus.
· Condom use among teens has jumped from 25%
to 65%, (they are buying the lie) but during that same period of
time STD’s have skyrocketed. The “protection” is not
“protecting.”
· Herpes - 1 in 5 people, age 12 and up test
positive for herpes in the United States. 90% of those tested
are unaware they have it.
There is
no cure! - only some control of symptoms.
Dr. Meg Meeker is a
pediatrician who is alarmed by the epidemic among teens. She has
written a book entitled “Epidemic-How Teen Sex is Killing Our Kids.”
According to her,
· Our single minded focus on sex without
consequence has fueled the rise of STD’s.
· Reliance on condoms has increased sexual
activity which increases risk exposure.
Dr. Meeker tells the story of
Sally, a 15 yr. old girl who came to the hospital complaining of
abdominal pain. Believing Sally must have appendicitis, Dr. Meeker
scheduled her for an appendectomy. But when the incision was made,
the doctors discovered an abdominal cavity filled with pus. Sally
had pelvic inflammatory disease which originated as Chlamydia - a
sexually transmitted disease. The good news about Chlamydia is that
there is a cure. The bad news is that frequently there are no
symptoms until great damage has been done to the reproductive
organs. Fortunately, for Sally, the doctor was able to save her
life. She was placed on IV antibiotics and went home one week
later….she went home without the female body parts that would have
enabled her to become a mother!
· Chlamydia and Gonnorhea are both STDs that
are curable if you know you have them but the symptoms can be
obscure. But if not cured, this disease can lead to PID and
infertility.
· One of the sad realities of abortion is
that the hollow tube that is inserted into the uterus to suck
out the baby is blind. The doctor goes by feel and the suction
catheter sometimes bumps against the uterus wall leaving
scarring behind. In the future when this young woman is ready to
conceive, the fertilized egg will not snuggle into the uterus
wall and grow if it bumps against these scars. It will simply
pass on out of the uterus. Other times her cervix has been
damaged by the insertion of the suction tube. In later years
when she conceives, as the baby grows and puts pressure on the
cervix it begins to open and the mommy to be miscarries.
· I believe one of the sad consequences of
not choosing God’s plan for sexuality in future generations will
be rampant infertility from pelvic inflammatory disease, and
abortions. We had a young woman in the Center this week who
shared with us the grief of two abortions and now…no children.
Her words, “I live with the pain that I aborted the only two
children I would ever conceive. I also know that it was probably
my abortions that made me that way.”
· In the media, the rampant assault of sexual
messages that portray sex without consequence communicates, If
you’re not having sex something must be wrong with you.
· Half of all students in 9
th
thru 12th grade have already had sex. Once they begin, sexual
contact usually increases and transmission of diseases also
increases exponentially.
I frequently visit Planned
Parenthood’s website. ( Kind of like poking at a sore tooth). The
article I read on Friday was from a report on one of their fund
raisers. The speaker entertained them by describing various
animals mating rituals. The flamingoes for example are unable to
mate unless surrounded by dozens of their own kind. He ended with
this comment, “If people dated like animals, we’d have more
successful relationships.”
When God laws are removed
from humanity… humanity become animals. The recognition of God at
the Center of life, and love, elevates us in a way that nothing
else can. I have news for Planned Parenthood… anyone who thinks
mindless mating reflects successful relationships…. Is, in fact,
thinking like an animal!.
III. Sexual Immorality is not
a private affair!
Sexual immorality, (as
defined by God: any sex outside of a monogamous covenant
relationship) is a sin against the human spirit and against our
relationship with our Creator that produces tragic results. It is
also a sin against the basic building block of the relationship
fabric of our society…the family! It is a sin against the children
who will follow us. Sexual immorality is a sin against our nation
and against our society. The entire fabric of this country is
based on the monogamous relationship of a man and woman conceiving
and raising children who will follow their example…and when
morality of a nation breaks down, when the family is weakened and
destroyed…the destruction of the nation is not far behind!
Historian Edward Gibbons in
The Rise and Fall of the Roman Empire says that “One of the
principle reasons for the decline of the Roman empire was the
dissolution of the family structure within it.”
I’m sure that when the Mr.
Roman man snuck off to his mistress as history tells us most of
them did, or Mrs. Roman…( I read this week that an astounding
percentage were unfaithful) or when they visited the temple for
worship which was nothing more than illicit sex….. I’m sure they
said at the time… This is a private matter. What we choose to do
with other consenting adults is our business and only our
business…
Well the Romans aren’t
saying that any more…their entire world Empire ceased to exist!
They discovered too late that what they were doing in private had
lasting consequences on every one else!
We have watched our society,
just in the last 40 years, hit a slide of immorality that is now
bringing us to the brink of national destruction. All the while,
(just like in Rome or Greece, or Babylon, or Assyria, or the
Egyptian dynasties) the secularist in our society are declaring that
what is happening to our moral fabric is actually progress. We have
been removed from the chains of ancient Christianity that has
repressed human sexuality.
Christianity has not repressed
human sexuality, it has repressed human immorality!
Your body is a temple, not an
amusement park! -August
Your body is not a tomb…
Your body is not a tavern…
Your body is a temple!
IV. Our National sexual D-day
has arrived!
It came to a head on June
23,2003. The US Supreme Court decided that homosexual behavior
(sodomy) was not only not illegal, but was a right protected by the
US Constitution. They struck down a Texas law against sodomy in this
now infamous case called Lawrence vs. Texas. Nobody asked what the
rest of the nation thought about it…Five people determined, as they
did in Roe vs. Wade that a previously illegal action was now
protected by law. (Well, you say, homosexuality shouldn’t have been
illegal to start with…it may be immoral but it’s not a crime.)
What you need to know is that
that law was holding back a flood of new challenges to morality in
our country. That Supreme Court decision opened a flood gate and we
find ourselves now in a raging swirling mess…
In November of 2003, the
Massachusetts Supreme Judicial Court ruled 4 to 3 ( 4 people) that
the state must recognize the legitimacy of homosexual marriage. They
cited as their authority the Lawrence vs. Texas ruling.
On May 17th 2004,
Massachusetts began issuing marriage licenses to homosexuals. And
there is now no way through the Judicial system to stop it…they are
basing their right on a Supreme Court decision.
What was once clearly against
the law,… passed by our elected Legislatures in this country has
been quickly and completely nullified by just 9 un-elected people
and there is supposedly not one thing the rest of the nation can say
about it.
That’s why this President, who
does believe in a one woman/ one man marriage relationship, is
trying so hard to pass an amendment to the Constitution. Only an
Amendment to the constitution will be beyond the reach of judges
resetting the law by their rulings. Right now, when the first
homosexual marriage case reaches the US Supreme Court… Five judges,
can in one ruling, reshape the entire definition of marriage for the
entire nation, and there is not one thing we will be able to do
about it!
We are at D-Day! You say, why
are you making such a huge deal about two people of the same sex,
who love each other getting married? Because this is about so much
more than those two people.
Utah Polygamist, Tom Green, is
defending his right to marry five wives and you know what he is
using as his defense? Lawrence vs. Texas!….absolutely, if two men
can marry then you have unstopped the cork any anybody can marry
anyone they want. Some judge somewhere will eventually give some man
the right to marry his daughter, and who will be able to stop
them???? The cork is out of the bottle.
National Coalition of Gay
Organizations: has already demanded the repeal of all legislative
provisions that restrict the sex or number of persons entering into
a marriage unit”
Even more importantly, Once it
becomes the protected right of an individual to marry anyone they
chose regardless of sex or number….
….If I try to tell you what I
believe God clearly says about sex outside of a one man one woman
covenant relationship I will be breaking the law! My sermon will be
branded “hate speech” against a constitutionally protected class of
American citizens. If a gay couple comes to me to be married and I
refuse to marry them, I will be denying them their constitutional
rights and I could be arrested and this church could lose it’s tax
exemption status.
On April 28th 2004, Canada
passed Bill C-250 which criminalizes speech or writings that
criticize homosexuality. Anything deemed “homophobic” is punishable
by up to six months in prison!
Already, in Canada, a printer
was fined $40,000.00 for refusing to print stationary for a
homosexual activist group.
If passed, every public school
will be required to teach homosexuality as the moral equivalent of
traditional marriage. Textbook will have to give equal space to all
legal unions even in first grade schoolbooks.
If passed courts will not be
able to favor adoption families or foster families with a husband
and wife.
Once marriage has been
redefined a marriage license will have the status of a drivers
license or hunting permit. Divorces will be obtained instantly and
not involve a court.
Conclusion:
James Dobson: The old earthen
dam that has held and protected the reservoir of Christian values
and beliefs since the days of our Founding Fathers has been leaking
for decades. With each passing year the structural damage has become
greater. In recent days the entire superstructure is beginning to
give way.